Let’s face it, dating isn’t easy. It can be difficult, uncomfortable, but most of all, it can be awkward especially if you’re a geek girl. Not only can asking someone out or being asked out be an absolute chore, but then there’s the date itself! It’s so hard to find someone who truly appreciates all of your interests and who won’t run screaming from a conversation about Star Trek. Come on, nerdy girls need love too! Finally, there is a series which shows the difficulties that your typical lady geek goes through to find her Number One. Awkward Embraces is a web series from Project A Productions which encapsulates perfectly what it’s like to be both awesome and socially awkward at the same time. Show of hands, how many of us can relate to that?
Jessica Mills, creator of Awkward Embraces, stars alongside Candis Phlegm and Lyndsey Doolen as they create the Three Musketeers of Geekdom. Jessica, who Candis describes as a “geek boy’s dreamgirl,” loves Star Trek, video games, and all things geeky. She wears Star Wars t-shirts proudly and loves throwing in obscure pop culture references into everyday lingo. Her friends love her, but don’t always get what she’s talking about. (Such is the plague of a geek girl, unless all of your friends are geeks too!) The show, now in its second season, is honest and cleverly written and if you’ve ever had a bad date, you can totally relate to girls’ dating highs-and-lows.
One such low is recounted by Jessica in Season 1’s Fourth episode titled “The Morning After.” After meeting a guy at a mutual friend’s party, she goes back to his place and “accidentally has sex with him.” Also in season one, Candis is set up on a blind date by her mom. In season 2, Lyndsey reconnects with an old friend who has less than savory intentions for their reunion. The situations that the girls go through in Awkward Embraces aren’t too far-fetched to not be something that might happen to one of us. Candis, Lyndsey, and Jessica seem just like any set of friends. They’re totally there for eachother, but not afraid to tell it like is is. When Jessica asks if she’s a dirty slut, Lyndsey says, “Yes, you are, and it’s awesome, right?”
Awkward Embraces is an independent web series. The show is considerably successful to have such a small financial backing; funds for Season 2 were raised on IndieGogo. And while it looks as if the show was filmed in the girls’ own living rooms, that actually contributes to the personality of the show. Jessica is a sort of “everywoman” who lives out our own trials and tribulations. In fact, a neat feature of the show’s website is viewer submitted dating horror stories. Maybe I should submit the story about the guy I went on a date with who was the self-proclaimed best healer on his realm in World of Warcraft?
The show is currently on hiatus, but that gives you plenty of time to go back and watch all of the episodes from Season 1 and the beginning of season 2. You will literally laugh out loud at some of the awkwardly realistic moments. Meanwhile, check out updates on the show’s website, Facebook and Twitter accounts. You can also follow Jessica, Candis and Lyndsey on twitter! Oh, and Candis is totally awesome! (She didn’t tell me to say that.. I promise!)